Started chatting to a guy on a dating app and then I mentioned we should go for a drink - as find it tedious the talking on the apps. Although he didn’t seem like my usual type when we met I was instantly attracted to him and we had an amazing first date.
He seemed really into me and had a really great date went out to a few bars and ended up dancing in a club with him till 4am ( despite me previously saying I was only going for one drink)
Woke up to a text off him saying he had a really good night and would love to take me on another date. And he sent a couple of texts throughout the day. He mentioned what days he is free but I didn’t want to seem super keen so I didn’t say when I’m next free - I just made random conversation asking if the hangover had lifted. That was early-ish yesterday and he has left it on unread.
He wasent a big messager from what I’ve gathered before the date (I.e. I wasent sure if date was going ahead as he had not messaged all day before)
In the past ive dated a few love bombers where it’s been really intense and ive overinvested and fell for these types of people. He doesn’t seem to be like that so far (well I certainly don’t get those vibes). So I’m thinking this level of contact is normal? Should I have responded with what days I am free - I am wary of OLD as had some not great experiences.