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Is my husband getting ready to cheat?

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Hopee25 · 04/04/2025 12:06

Title says it all really, I was just browsing on our computer and in our history i found these BBC articles my husband was reading about one by one? Then moving onto CASH iSA articles? I just can’t get it out of my head, why would these articles be interesting to him?

A little back story,

We have been together for 15 years, we are currently expecting our 2.child, I’m 7 months pregnant. My husband lost his job a couple of months ago. Then he lost his father. He is rather depressed about life overall. Still I can’t find a reason why these articles would be interesting to him? Please someone tell me am I overreacting?

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ZebedeeDougalFlorence · 04/04/2025 17:41

TinyGingerCat · 04/04/2025 17:25

Why are you looking at his browsing history? If he works in financial crime and is big into privacy don't you think he'd make sure his browsing history wasn't saved if he was searching stuff he didn't want you to see. I'd be really cross if my DH went through my search history as I'm also a real rabbit hole searcher. It's a very strange conclusion for you to leap to. The cash ISA could be where he wants to put any redundancy payment and the Ashley Maddison stuff could be because he watched the documentary on Netflix. My search history is currently full of stuff about people on MAFS, Yotam Ottolengi recipes, tax efficient investment and true crime.

Your search history is like most other people's. His isn't.

Dweetfidilove · 04/04/2025 19:39

Based on this evidence I think you've added 1+1 and arrived at 3. None of it suggests cheating. Is there something else that has caused such a leap?

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