Desperately looking for some relationship advice. I've been with my current partner for 6 months, our relationship is going great and we are really happy together. At the very start of our relationship he told me he had done a sexual video recording with his ex gf just in passing in a conversation as I work in a school and mentioned in conversation I was in a class talking about consent and taking sexual photos etc.
Fast forward to last night and we were watching a TV show which featured a similar topic and the video just popped into my head and I asked him if he still had it. He told me he still has it and other sexual photos of his ex on his hidden folder on his phone but had just forgot about them until I mentioned it and offered to delete them immediately. We got together very soon after he split from his ex so he said he didn't even think about them being there but I got very upset as I've never done sexual videos etc and feel uncomfortable he has and also uncomfortable as to why he still has them because I personally would have remembered having content like that and deleted them as soon as I split from my ex if I did have any. We have had a massive fall out over it as now I'm saying I don't feel comfortable with him clicking on his hidden folder to delete them as then he will see them especially when his ex is the mother of his child so I regularly see her when she's picking up and dropping off his daughter with us and I hate the thought of him even looking at sexual photos of them even for a second to delete them. Just looking for some impartial advice on how other women would feel about this as I don't know if I'm over reacting or not. Thanks