As per the above really. Been with husband a long time and he is a very loving person. However, he will think of every reason under the sun not to equally share housework etc. We both work full time but his hours are slightly longer than mine. When I was on maternity leave he couldn’t be expected to do much as he worked all day. When I was part time, I had more free time than him so should do more. Now we’re both full time, I’m getting very little in the way of assistance. I think it’s probably the lowest it’s ever been. Now he says that we can do things fairly but ‘not equally as I like doing the housework more than him’, I mean I don’t, it just needs to be done. He will claim none of it needs to be done.
This is somewhat complicated by the fact he is autistic and I’m going to assume has PDA. I think it’s very likely.
Anyone found a way to share things fairly with a reluctant husband?