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My child’s dad slapped me tonight and kicked me.

57 replies

purpleblue2 · 27/02/2025 21:14

Just that really, he did this all while I had my 3 year old in my hand. He’s also hit the door and the door frame and then spat at ne twice aswell. She’s told me her daddy needs to go to jail cause he wasn’t very nice to mummy and told me not to cry although in that moment I wasn’t crying.

we already don’t live together and I don’t want to be with him but how do I stop this! How do I stop this from getting worse. As I got out he told me he was calling social services… to find out all about me. We’ve had them before. I don’t want them to take my baby

OP posts:
Dery · 28/02/2025 08:48

@purpleblue2 - you talk about evidence. Do you have bruises? If so, take photos. But anyway, your description of what has happened is evidence. The statement which the police will take from you is evidence. This man sounds extremely dangerous.

LivingwithHopenowandforever · 23/07/2025 12:44

@purpleblue2 How are you? Hoping you have managed to get away from him. Xx

purpleblue2 · 23/07/2025 14:14

@LivingwithHopenowandforever

hey we are all good now everything has changed and he is no longer around! I’m working minimal hours and spending all the time I can with my daughter and my mum is doing all she can to support us! Thank you for checking in. It’s just crazy and we’ve been on our first holiday to Tenerife recently. Hope you’re okay.

OP posts:
Dery · 23/07/2025 14:19

That’s great news, OP. Thanks for the update!

LivingwithHopenowandforever · 23/07/2025 15:43

purpleblue2 · 23/07/2025 14:14

@LivingwithHopenowandforever

hey we are all good now everything has changed and he is no longer around! I’m working minimal hours and spending all the time I can with my daughter and my mum is doing all she can to support us! Thank you for checking in. It’s just crazy and we’ve been on our first holiday to Tenerife recently. Hope you’re okay.

That is amazing news!!! So glad you got away from him. Glad you and the little one are happy & safe!

hellohellooo · 23/07/2025 15:55

@purpleblue2 you are amazing !!!

I have been there

I had a very small baby in my arms and he snatched her and flung her to the floor

Such evil people exist

We can break free and life is so much better without this abuse

Hope everything goes smoothly

MorrisseysMisery · 23/07/2025 16:05

OP when my son was about 2 months old my then P came home from work ranting and being totally unreasonable, I asked him to calm himself for the benefit of the baby (said child was in my arms) and walked away.
He began kicking the back of my legs so I ran down the the hall into the front garden where he maintained kicking me.
He then kicked me between the legs.
This type of nonsense continued another 3 months then I finally rang Women's Aid.
He is now a lonely man in his late 50s having burned all his bridges. Doesn't see any of his children (31, 24, 15, ) as they refuse entirely.
Please have a think OP.

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