I think I would just like confirmation that my boyfriend was out of order and I was right to dump him.
We don't live together, so he came over the other day, we had sex 2 times in the evening. At 4am he wakes me up wanting sex, I said no I'm way too tired, he tries again 2 mins later. I said why aren't you listening to me, I said no?! I went to sleep on the couch, he got up at 7ish, got his things from the front room which woke me up and then he just left without saying anything.
I messaged him later on to say that if I say no to 4am sex it's doesn't mean I don't love him or find him attractive it's just that I don't feel like sex at that moment and that leaving without saying anything is not on. He is ignoring me now. Complete silent treatment. So I msg that we are obviously not compatible and blocked him.
This is not the first time this has happened, sometimes I just have sex with him at in the middle of the night even though I don't really feel like it, we often have sex 2-3 times in the evening before but he still wakes me up for more. On the times I have said no before, he does this stroppy leaving without saying anything as if I have done something wrong and I even end up apologising. I know this is not right?