What you dump over this?

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Boyfriend of 3ish months was away for the weekend “with the lads”. After he came home he was telling me all about it and how they were playing a drinking game and his question was to name the best, worst and craziest ‘shag’ of his life and why they were so. He was delighted to say of course he named me as the best. I was absolutely affronted, we are in our late 30s, we aren’t teenagers. I asked him who he named for the other 2 and he told me. I felt it was so distasteful and disrespectful to firstly talk about any woman in that way but also to talk in the way he was while in a relationship? He thinks I’m overreacting and said it was all just a laugh

Sorry to be clear, I'm talking about the game etc. I don't ever appreciate being told how I should feel or what is and isn't the acceptable reaction. That would sway my response a lot more than just the game itself in this case.

Now you know why he was single in his 30's.... sounds like a knob.

@Itrytobesensible no I don't, or I wouldn't do it.

It wouldn't bother me at all - but it bothers you, and he doesn't seem to care that it bothers you.

You aren't suited and he wont be willing to change.

So you’ve never talked to your friends about sex or how a current partner differed to a previous partner etc etc etc? I doubt that.

He sounds a bit thick.
Late 30's?
Icky twatty behaviour.

It's his way of boasting how great his new girlfriend is.

He didn't read the room by telling you. Like people have said. Women talk about stuff like that.