Me and my boyfriend live separately. Always have because he can't seem to sort his life out. When we first met he was working. Then he came out of work with back pain. For various reasons he didn't attend his appointments but the main reason was he couldn't prioritise his money onto the right things and couldn't afford the trains etc. Rather than communicate with the Dr's he just didn't show up and after 3 attempts they gave up. Since then he's not worked. He ended up moving into a flat and it's in the middle of town center. He's got deeper and deeper into his mental health issues. He's got friendly with loads of wasters who smoke pot or worse. He has any Tom dick and Harry around his flat and the behaviour has just spiralled.
He came to me a few months back in tears asking for my love and support to turn his life around. But honestly he's doing the care minimum to help himself and as awful as it sounds when I see him all he can think about or talk about is himself. I feel myself tensing up and rolling my eyes at him grumbling about the world and how nothing is fair on him. He never ever asks me how I am. But if I am ever honest and say I'm down. I've had no adult company. I'm working. Raising my children. Cleaning my house. I'm tired. I'm invisible to him. He can't even force himself to show any empathy. I spoke about my work collegeue the other day. She's 34 and has 2 years maximum to live. But she comes into work and tries. He quickly reverted the subject back to him before I had even finishing speaking about how amazingly brave she was and how bluddy sad I was for her.
He has purchased a pet recently and now he's losing his flat. Yesterday I was upset and tried to tell him his wishy washy contact was upsetting me. He told me he had no credit left to message on Sunday night. 6.45am Monday morning he text me. I said I thought you had no credit. He said it suddenly started sending messages about an hour after. So I asked why he didn't let me know then if he was able to text others. Then he simply didn't bother with me yesterday. I called him at lunch and he saw "someone" he wanted to talk to and asked me to call him back. When I did he was walking his puppy near the river with no lead and had no interest in talking again. I hung up when he said he wanted leaving alone until later. He then never contacted me again. I messaged at 5pm asking him to discuss the relationship. He didn't message back. I called at 6pm and 7pm. No response.
It's now the next day. Nothing! Do I just block him as he's showing he has no interest in how I feel?