ive been dating someone for a while (6 months) and she wants me to show more commitment (read moving in).
my current arrangement is living in a 3 bed home with my 26 year old daughter. Third bedroom is currently configured as a walk in wardrobe/study.
I’ve not lived there long and spent a lot of time getting it comfortable for both of us and she took a lot of time decorating and getting her room just right.
My partner rents a 1 bed flat and she shares custody with her ex. I’m happy for her to move in but I’m worried as she doesn’t get on well with my daughter and it’s basically going to be a choice between them.
I’m feeling a lot of pressure as I don’t want to ask my daughter to leave (we’ve only been the house an few months) although she is 26 now and should be branching out on their own . Also by doing that she will blame my partner for “kicking her out”.
I don’t get to see my partner very often as we both work away a lot of the time and when she’s home she has her child so making together is a real challenge.
thoughts?