So I 22F work abroad in Norway as an IT consultant. I got an internship during my final year of uni and through that I actually got a job offer.
Even though I work as an IT consultant our office is very female dominated. Since we're perfume company. Everything except production is happening in our building.
I just started working here 3 months ago but my internship was 4.5 months. So I have a bit of grasp on Norwegian culture. They're fare more sexually liberated here than almost anywhere. Nothing wrong with it just a bit of a culture shock. Its pretty normal for colleagues of different departments to have relationship's with one another.
There's another "expat" in our company from Iran. He works at research and development as a chemical engineer. But most of his job is consulting designers if they're ideas are feasible from an engineering perspective. So he works with mostly women a lot of time. He's 35 years old and from the time I spend with him he seems solid. Very relaxed, kind and very respectful. He tries not to bother anyone and he's very good at his job. He already speaks Norwegian and Swedish since he came here when he was 23 right after getting his degree a in Sweden. The man likes to keep to himself he usually hangs out with two other engineers. But he definitely socializes with everybody. Let's call him Reza for now.
Reza is quite popular at our company since he works here for so long now. He's also popular with the women of the office. He's very tall,works out and still has his hair so it's not very surprising . At lunch some women including me were talking about men in the office. Reza came up, I started chuckling since I knew Reza was quite the quiet guy. They noticed and asked why i chuckled. I told them why and they all started laughing. They said you must not know who Reza is then. The told me that Reza is a known womenizer. Which I found very surprising. They then continued and said he slept with multiple women working at our office. I mean it's not unusual but I just didn't expect it.But here comes my concern.
They then proceeded to tell me who he went out with. They said a few names and one woman was 20 the other one 21 and another one 23. A few other ones were 33,38 and 41.
I thought the first two were very concerning since they were 19 and 20 respectively when it happened. He was about 33/34 at the time. I spoke to them and they said they had great time. Aswell as the fact that he treated them respectfully.
Do you guys think this behaviour is weird?