Hi all,
I was very in love with someone last year who just used me over and over again until finally I put a stop to it. He started actually dating someone whilst still sweet talking me occasionally and I told him I was cutting him off on all social media because I didn’t want to watch him pursue a relationship with someone else. Basically it was a case of if I’m not good enough for you to have a relationship with then I don’t want anything to do with you. I got tired of being at his beck and call for fun.
As soon as I told him I was cutting him off he blocked me on everything before I could have the chance to do it. I only told him I was going to unfriend him etc as I didn’t want any animosity or to look childish so I wished him all the best and told him I hoped he was happy but I’d prefer to just move on and not watch stories of dates with his new girl etc.
Anyway, I noticed a few days later he had unblocked me but I just left it at that as I was hurt by his behaviour and wanted nothing more to do with him.
We haven’t spoken for over 6 months and I noticed on NYE at 2am, he had sent me a friend request on Facebook? I thought him re adding me was strange in general but at that time just after we had gone into a new year seemed especially odd to me.
Im now curious at to what he wants now. He knows that he won’t be able to use me anymore after how I stood up for myself all those months ago. I had a quick look at his profile and surprise surprise he’s still ‘single’. I honestly feel like he never cared about me anyway and was never really interested in me or my life so why would he be trying to establish some sort of connection months down the line?
I thought once we stopped talking I’d never hear from him again as he knew I had feelings for him and I assumed he’d be happy to have me out of his life given I was no longer any use to him. What’s your thoughts?