Hi
I am after some advice from people that are not known to me so there’s no “bias”.
i have a 4 year old daughter, been separated from father since she was 6 months old. he has her one day a week (Sunday) which is through his choice and over the years we have had various arguments as he sometimes shows up at 2pm to collect her sometimes It can be later or earlier , no consistency whatsoever. Today he is sending me message after message about how he feels he has no bond with his daughter and it’s all my fault for only allowing him to see her 2 hours a week. Which is not the case !! I have tried to even suggest he has her another day in the week, but each week it needs to be set days and times which he will not do as he says he should be able to see her any day he decides that week. I’ve not been responding to his messages but they just keep coming , I’m used to him blaming me for everything as obviously he is a typical narc and never takes accountability for his own behaviours. Do I just continue to ignore the messages ? Do I respond with the evidence where I’ve suggested him having her more ? What do I do I’m at my wits end with him.