Found out partner of 1 year has been sexting another woman. The msgs are very explicit. Videos ,photosnthe lot. She has willingly shown me all of the screenshots.
He told he was single. She found out from a mutual friends birthdays party post on FB that showed photos of him and I together that indeed he was not single.
She did some stalking and found me ( thank fully) he does not know I know. She has left it to me to do as I wish with the messages.
He has no idea.
I found out this morning. He has msg the normal hi how are you today , chatty msg , I haven't even opened it. That was at 12 pm.
At the moment I doubt he will notice I'm being different as some days I don't get a chance to msg till late afternoon evening due to my job etc.
Time is ticking on he will start msging and calling if I do not open the msg or respond by this evening.
Advice please , how should I play this?
I have an idea to meet for a coffee and end it tomorrow take time off work ( he is self employed so easy enough to do) I can swap my shifts so not a problem.
I really do not want to end it over msgs , I want to see his face, and see how much he is willing to lie to me.
Want to do it face to face for my own clarity amd closure.
Please give me the strength not to msg him about this tonight.
I am truly heartbroken, however I know I will be alright.
We had christmas planned together as both of our own children have christmas with the other parent this year. It is my birthday on Saturday, stuff all planned together.
I am done I will never ever trust this man again. I feel sick.
He was or I though he was the kindest , most well rounded decent man I had met.... boy was I wrong here!!!