I caught my boyfriend (not husband, won’t propose) of 9 years contacting escorts when away on a boys light with his friends.
I don’t know what to do because we have a 5 year old and a 1 year old who adore him and I am a SAHM.
He claims it was for someone else, a friend of theirs just out of a marriage with the only woman he’s ever slept with.
The story has changed considerably over the last couple days, from everyone in the group knowing about it and considering chipping in to it just being my partners idea and him contacting them by himself. Mainly when I asked him to call them to prove his innocence.
He claims he didn’t call them and showed me the call log but he forgot about the text which states “hey, text me please” as the first message which means he called.
It isn’t the first time he’s abused my trust. He’s paid for webcam girls and similar in the past.
He swears blind it wasn’t for him and that they didn’t even have anyone round in the end.
Based on the text timestamps I was literally putting our little ones to bed as he was texting and calling these girls, and he claimed at tbe time he didn’t respond to my earlier texts as he got carried away with the boys.
I don’t know what to do. I’m a mess.