I'm new to the dating scene after a very long marriage. Not sure if I'm even ready to date, but I thought I'd join a site and see what happened.
I got talking to someone and we got on well. Had similar interests, so I thought, and connected well. Had our first date this afternoon.
I didn't really feel anything leading up to it. Not excited or nervous. Just kind of meh. We met, and got on well. Conversation flowed but still I didn't feel anything other than he's nice to talk to. There were also a few points about his personality that I thought were incompatible with mine I.e. he prefers staying in, I like going out. He wants to start a business which would effectively run itself so he doesnt have to work. I'm a workaholic in a job I love.
He also pushed a kiss on me outside the café which I wasn't really into, and it made me feel a bit uncomfortable.
He's keen though and wants to take me on a 2nd date. I think I've answered my own question here already but, would I be wasting his time and mine? Is there hope of anything emerging if I didn't feel it on the first date?