Would you leave if all the following were true:
Husband gets drunk at least once a week or twice and then spends the next day in bed and doesnt reappear until nighttime. You paid all household bills including rent, food, clothes and holidays as you earn twice as much and he is paying off debt, and contributes maybe the odd pair of shoes for kids. You have debt due to him asking you to take out loans on his behalf and not paying you back but saying he paid for stuff in the first year now he is broke its your turn (15 Years later). If you want to go out anywhere he causes a massive argument but then backs down and apologises after he has made you cry. He calls you fat all the time, but then says he didnt mean it. He accuses you of cheating and says you are an evil witch and worse. He says his mental health is bad. You feel like a single parent as he rarely takes the kids anywhere as is usually hung over on the weekend. But your kids adore him, dont see anything wrong happening and both your kids are SEN and having him in the house does help a lot as you have no other help. You have a lovely house and good job and it looks great from the outside. At all other times hes lovely.