MummyOfAPrincess, please tell us about your new baby....

[HansieMom]

.. and how everything went. I've been checking for the news for weeks!

Good, iam glad you have posted this, i have been searching for the last week as well.

Hope everything went ok

annie

Just bumping this as I too have been worrying about MOAP and really hoping things are going as ok as they can.

hi everyone thank you so much for looking for me.

Things went off to a very bumpy start, c section was booked for the 7th april.

On the 1st of april at 9pm i started having very bad back ache so i went into the shower to try and stop the pain.

When i got out the shower i sat down stairs with a quilt and started watching telly with my sister.

My step mom said to me before she went to bed if you need to go to hospital call them and tell them whats happening with the pain and if we need to go straight away we will.

I then got very strong contractions every two minutes for one minute at a time, i really didn`t want to go to hospital as i thought i was having braxton hicks.

I really needed the toilet so i went upstairs and i had a show.

At about 12 on the second of april i called the hospital and they said come straight in.

I didnt have any of my stuff for me or the baby with me as i wasnt at home, which was lucky really as i wouldn`t have wanted to be on my own while i went into labour.

When i got to the hospital i was two centermeters dilated.

I was asked if i still wanted the c section and i said yes, my step mom was beside me and helping me through every contraction.

My sister was left at home to look after DD and my dad went to my place and fetched some stuff i needed for me and the baby.

At 3.22am on the second of april DS was lifted out and he screamed right away.

DS stayed in hospital for nearly 3 weeks.

XP saw DS once in 3 weeks and he has now told me OW is pregnant

He then said that our children wont be pushed out but they already have.

He then went onto say that it was non of my buisness!

Congratulations MOAP. Glad little ds arrived safely.
As for XP - tell him to go stuff himself and you concentrate on enjoying your precious little baby and dd.
Its his loss - and I HOPE that when OW has her baby and starts making demands on him that he ups and leaves her too and then she'll have a taste of what she's put you through.
Thanks for letting us know - been thinking about you.

Hi MoaP

Congrats on your new DS. I bet he is gorgeous! What have you called him? I'm so sorry his dad is a twit. Soon OW will be fat and miserable and clingy your XP...let's see how long she continues to work. Grab some popcorn, put your feet up and laugh at them.

Many congratulations MOAP - so glad to hear your dear little ds is here safely. Sorry to hear your ex-p does not appreciate the wonderful gift of a son but that is his loss.

AMR she is already on the sick

Ha ha sounds like party time is over at their house. This ought to be good.

best revenge is a great life MOAP
Go get one

How is dd coping with the new arrival and the absence of XP?

She loves her new baby brother, she mothers him so much which i find so nice, and she`s very helpful aswell.

I am so with xp for not being there for his son when he really needed him.

All he cares about now is himself and her!

DD and DS will grow up and know i was the one who was there for them always.

DD doesn`t ask for xp now and she sleeps lovely.

as for the OW i think she`s got pregnant now so that xp looses all interest in DS as he was the new baby but when she has this one then he wont be.

thinking about it i was with xp for 4 years before i had DD, They have been together 5 months and she`s already having there first

Congratulations on your new little son! What a lovely family you have now, a little girl, a baby boy. It must have been very hard to be home with baby still in the hospital. But perhaps it gave you more rest as you weren't on duty 24/7.

I wonder if XP will leave his girlfriend when she is five months pregnant. Also I wonder what he says if an acquaintance says to him, "how is your little girl? And I remember your partner was pregnant. Gosh, that baby must be born by now. What did you have?" Then he can stumble around with answers.

lol hansiemom, he doesnt even know what his sons been through really and he doesnt care i don`t think.

He even had the cheek to ask me while i was still in hospital and DS was in the SCBU if OW could come with him to see DS for emotional support, i said NO, so he didn`t come and see him.

He called me petty on the phone and started swearing at me.

The staff at the hospital heard everything as he called the main office phone to speak to me and they then said we are not allowing him in with her if they do turn up, i said dont worry hes made it clear hes not coming and he didnt.

His excuses was as follows:

i don`t have any money to see him

i don`t want to see him with wires all over him

i tried to call you but your phone was off, so how could i arrainge to see him

i could go on....

He is such a fuckhead OMG. I cannot believe he spoke to you like that! I hate him. Give your little DS a hug and a kiss from all of the mumsnetters.

What an ass for wanting to bring whore into the hospital with him and then getting angry when you all said no. The man is deranged.

Congratulations on your new ds MOAP. What have you called him?

lulabelle i`m so sorry for you

well when they do have other children only then will they realise that there new relationship is the same as the old one.

When he told me she was pregnant it was the day DS came out of hospital, i was so upset and angry at him, that day was ment to be a happy day, a day i never thought would happen at one stage, hes a <strong>*</strong><strong>*</strong> and shes welcome to him

he kept texting me saying, well what you got to say about it then, i didn`t answer him and i never will as i dont care if she is having his child.

Just keep holding your head up high and ignore them MoaP. You are so awesome. They are so fucktarded.

I know you think that she got knocked up to upset you ....but I think that a bucktoothed functionally illiterate moron like her couldn't read the instructions on her birth control pills properly. The words were probably too big.

I would consider getting a restraining order against XP. This is emotional abuse and it can be a lot more damaging than physical abuse. You have two little ones and you don't need the negative energy that he is throwing your way. You have witnesses especially in the form of the hospital staff.

AMR - pmsl at "bucktoothed functionally illiterate moron".
That's brilliant
that he could have a go at you while your in hospital having had his baby for not letting his slaggy whore in to visit.
He really does take the biscuit doesn't he.

Hi MOAP, congratulations on the birth of your DS!

Am I right in thinking you had a CS or did I misread? It's just I had one with MS and what you wrote made me smile cos he shrieked and peed on the surgeon when he came out.

So your XP is still being a twat, quelle suprise. Are you SURE you don't want us to pop over and at least give him a wedgie ?

lol Janos

yeah i had a CS

He`s really not worth it, i hate the sight of him right now