My estranged parent recently offended me by giving me a sealed letter of their final wishes in terms of their funeral wishes and that sort of thing. They have nobody else, so probably just assumed I'd be willing to do it.
They just handed me the sealed document and said open it when they die. They've recently said and done some pretty wicked things and I have absolutely no love or respect for them.
I want to hand the letter back when i see them, saying I'm unwilling to help or have any involvement in seeing that their wishes are honoured. Frankly it's not my responsibility. I'm an only child and there's nobody else who is likely to be willing. But I don't want the burden. I should have said so and refused the letter when they handed it to me. I was just in shock and so offended that I was unable to think clearly at the time.