I recently married my now husband 3 months ago, recently has recently been struggling with his knees so is on light duties at work but he picks and chooses when to stay at home and not considering the effect it could have on management and how they treat him. When ever I speak and ask him to consider being 'mature' about work as it is his main income and we need that along with my income he gets defensive and makes our like I don't want him to be at home if I'm working from home. His moods are continous, when ever I start a conversation he just replies with 'right' or 'ok' and there is no conversation, I've literally bought a new house so his daughter can have a bigger room and if we ever have children, I work all the time. I've just had enough of his shitty attitude with me and it gets my back up so I react then I get the blame. I'm really considering a divorce but as he has no family here and is currently paying off a large debt bill I know he couldn't afford to get a place of his own or move in with family. I feel suffocated, sad and trapped. I can't stand this life with him anymore. I've pulled him out of his gambling addiction and paid off £5k worth of debt he pilled up, I deal with his shitty ex and this is what I get to deal with.
Please give me advice if you have any