Drunken Christmas Party

[ManchesterRob]

I've been married 20 years, have lovely kids and never ever cheated on my wife. I love the bones of her. Last night I went on a works Christmas party. We all got very drunk and did the normal dancing, hugging and had a great time. Whilst dancing a girl said how she really liked me and pecked me on the lips. It was in no way reciprocated and nothing happened. She was drunk and probably can't even remember today. I feel so guilty. Do I tell my wife bearing in mind I have to go in the office and work with her? I don't even fancy her.

😂 exactly that!! It’s a hug. Wow

In these circumstances I wouldn't want to know. It was unprovoked, unreciprocated and unwanted.

As someone earlier said, giving it airtime may plant seeds of doubt, which seems unnecessary.

Same happened to me on Thursday, I don't drink so when I got home I said you'll never guess what. There's life in this old bird yet, Trev went in for the lips when I hugged him goodnight. We both laughed and it was over.

Thanks for all the comments. I've told her and she was really good about it. She trusts me and put it down to the drink......which I'm sure it was with the girl in question.

Well done as if I found out & my DH hadn't told me then I'd lose all trust in him for not being honest (regardless of how innocent he was in the kiss).

For me the most interesting thing about this is that you’ve had your Christmas party already! It’s mid-November!

If I was your wife this wouldn’t bother me. I might feel sorry for you worrying so much about it. Tell her if it will stop you feeling guilty about it though.

Oh you have. Great

My ex used to tell me about the hugging that went on at work by this 'annoying girl'. You can guess what happened next.
Be careful there.