Hello I've discovered a whole profile from Adultwork of a young woman (27) in a folder on my husband's iPhone. I just happened to go through it while he was asleep last night and came across it. To play detective I signed up then did a search of this particular girl who lives just a few miles away from us. Nice discreet cosy set up in an apartment. I feel sick to my stomach and haven't gone into work today as I need to prioritise myself. I left it open so he'd see it when he woke up to start a conversation. He said there was nothing there ( he took his phone to the loo) then after probing more said the lads at work looked at these kinds of things.
I'm devastated as we're in our 50s coming up to retirement and we have 4 grown up girls and grandchildren (what the hell is going on here)?
He says he didn't put it into a folder but I have folders to organise my stuff so I know that they don't put themselves first. Am I overreacting here? I'm in the process of getting all of his personal belongings and leaving them outside. I own my home outright so he would have to go back to his parents as he has nothing in his name.
I want to be with someone who wants me. This is our 2nd marriage and I'm slim healthy and take good care of myself. Thanks for reading x