Aibu- boyfriend annoyed I won’t see him day after norovirus

[Toblerone4]

My boyfriend spent all day yesterday with v&d. he said it’s the sickest he has ever felt in his life. I seen him yesterday morning and then he left for work and started feeling sick around 11am. Chances are I maybe already have it but so far I feel ok. I’m recovering from a minor gynae procedure and am off work this week and next. I’m really crampy and sore and the last thing I want to do is catch this stomach bug.
my boyfriend was to come and spend the weekend with me from today and I said best to leave it for today at least. He said it’s likely I have it as we kissed yesterday morning and I’m being unreasonable not allowing him up, that this was our plans for the weekend. He was still being sick at 10pm last night.
aibu? The last thing I need is a stomach bug and retching etc with how I’m already feeling. He’s so annoyed and I think he’s out of order

we have a concert tonight so he’s pissed off about that. I wasn’t definitely got going with how I am feeling anyway but am surprised he still is (there’s a group of us, not just me and him) he says I should definitely go to the concert even if I don’t see him the rest of the day

Tell him if he turns up at your door you won't be letting him in and you'll be revaluating the relationship. He's selfish.

Yeah I can’t understand why he doesn’t seem to think it’s a big deal

Because he's a selfish arse.

YADNBU - I’m currently recovering from an operation (day 3, abdominal) and my DD has come down with a bug today, I’m honestly dreading it and have the real fear about retching and vomiting whilst my stomach is stitched shut but I’m a single parent and don’t have any other choice. There’s no way I would choose to be around a partner with it right now especially one that didn’t live with me and had such little regard for making me and my child unwell. Steer clear for as long as you’re comfortable with! X

You're recovering from a gynae procedure so the very last thing you need right now is a case of the pukin' shits. I would reconsider the whole relationship because he sounds very selfish and inconsiderate.

I've recently had noro. I avoided everyone for well over a week.

A friend was meant to come to stay when I would have been 3 days in, 24h into it I rang them and said I love you and I'd love to see you but I wouldn't wish this on you. Cancelled plans.

I also was meant to go to a christening and a birthday party that week. No way as I'm not a selfish arsehole like your boyfriend is.

I wasn't for seeing anybody and even after I was fully clear, I avoided everyone for another 72 hours as I wouldn't wish it on them.

The fact that you are looking after a child, recovering from a procedure , already in pain and I can bet if this man child came over to bring you noro, he would be expecting to be looked after too. When someone shows you who they are, listen to them.. Feel better soon x