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Why would a guy keep asking if you are 100% fully straight? I have already confirmed I am straight (heterosexual) but he has asked this a few times?

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Luckylola732 · 04/11/2024 04:51

This guy I have been in the early stages of talking to/getting to know each other has asked me a few times if I am definitely straight. I wouldn't normally wouldn't think anything of this, however he has asked a few times the same question, once just before we hooked up and at the start of us starting to date, but despite me saying that I am straight he keeps asking.

I was just wondering if this is a normal thing for guys to ask, or keep bringing up to a girl who they are interested in or who is clearly interested in them.

part of me thinks he keeps bringing this up, because maybe he isn't fully straight, which if he isn’t is completely fine and I would be okay with, and he just doesn't know how to properly open this kind of communication up.

I may be overthinking this too much, just find it a bit odd that he keeps asking

OP posts:
StormingNorman · 06/11/2024 15:56

Has he hinted about threesomes with another woman?

Youwerenotthefirstmylove · 06/11/2024 16:13

Would you be interested in a threesome or him watching you with another woman, if not tell him now just incase it's why he keeps asking.
I would be annoyed that he's asking if you're sure of your sexuality nevermind a few times, I wouldn't be bothering with him whether its out of insecurity or for wanting to add another woman.

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