Me and a guy have been chatting. He's a childhood friend. We had a brief fling in our 20s but then our lives went in different directions. We've both found ourselves single at the same time in our 50s and have sort of re-connected. It hadn't spilt over into romance quite but we talked most days, it was chatty, easy and he'd mentioned going away together etc. I liked him. He's got so many good qualities. Bright, sharp as a tack, funny, easy to talk to about many different subjects, very well read, thoughtful, considerate etc. A conversation turned to films and out of nowhere, he referred to an actress as a "slut with issues" and part of the 'feminazi". I was stunned. Didn't see it coming at all. Such aggressive and nasty misogynistic language. Any feelings for him that might have been building have gone in a poof of smoke. I just fear that so many men harbour views like this and I increasingly don't want anything to do with them. I'm absolutely fine and wouldn't say I'm upset but I do think I feel a general sense of it being the final straw in the relationship stakes for me.