DH's bad moods are sucking the life out of me. A lot of the time it feels like walking on eggshells. He is always moaning about something, catastrophising everything. It never rains, it pours. There are no small risks, only disasters waiting to happen.
He is very rigid, his opinion is the only right one, everyone else is stupid. He has roadrage every time he drives. He is very quick to anger with the kids for doing kids stuff (like leaving toys everywhere or being loud).
He is always on the phone, and dare I say anything about it, he is doing Something Very Important. He can be very condescending and speak down to me, and when I point that out to him he always turns it on me 'oh here we go again' 'you are being over sensitive'. He doesn't seem to have any empathy, for me or for others.
He doesn't like my friends nor my family, and he doesn't hold back about it. I feel like I can't even talk to him properly, he often monologues at me, but rarely engages in actual conversation. I don't remember the last time we had light-hearted reciprocated chit chat, nevermind normal deep heart to heart.
Life is generally busy at the moment as we both work FT, and DCs preschool age. I do majority of house and kid related stuff.
I just feel so alone and unsupported. I don't know whether it's just a phase which will get better once kids are a bit older, or whether I just didn't want to see him for who he is. I don't know.
Is your DH a miserable moan and did it get better with time?