He has phoned me 3 times and also showed up to my house unannounced in the last week, all to talk about the divorce we are going through.
I had to file a court order for him to show his financial details as he ignored all correspondence.
He stands to lose potentially a lot of money through this divorce and it is killing him. He told me yesterday I'm ruining his life and putting him through hell.
I just want a divorce. He wants one too but does not want to have to pay or give me anything. We have an 8 year old child together.
He had been drinking and phoned me last night saying some horrible things, it's honestly this awful big black cloud hanging over my life and at every stage of this divorce he has made it difficult and awful.
We are only at the start of it, I'm worried he might do something to himself and then my son would be without a dad. I really don't know what to do.