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Cheating husband

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jennifermal · 25/10/2024 04:49

Recently I found out my husband cheated on me and I'm currently 30 weeks pregnant. He started a new job and became close with a coworker and they exchanged numbers. He's trying to minimize it by saying it only lasted 2 days. And when we hashed out our issues he ended it. He also said that if we did not talk and deal with our issues he would have continued to talk to this woman. The past couple weeks have been rocky. And he chose then to confide into another woman.

This is the same woman he's told me about and I told him I was not comfortable with him giving her his personal information and he did it anyway. He never would have said a word to me if I didn't find it in his phone. I have held this man down when he lost a job, quit a job, had no money and at his absolute lowest. And he chose to do this to me at my lowest.

I'm so hurt idk what to do with myself. I can't sleep I can't eat. This is the same man that told me he'll never leave or hurt me and he did. I have not spoken to him since I found the messages and I don't plan on it. He's trying to fix what he did but I can't forgive him for this.

I have no one to speak to about this. I feel so alone and numb. I can't focus I called out of work. Idk when I'll be ok again.

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ProvincialLady24 · 25/10/2024 05:07

You're pregnant and vulnerable.

Instead of supporting you he had an affair.

What an absolute piece of selfish shit.

lovemyboyz247 · 25/10/2024 06:28

Sorry you are going through this.

Do you have any family or close friends you can talk to? It might help you to have some other support as he sounds like a selfish shit.

DawnMumsnet · 25/10/2024 07:19

The OP posted two threads in error, so we're closing this shorter one and linking to her other thread - here

User364837 · 25/10/2024 07:22

Did he actually have an affair? What did he do, it’s not very clear from your OP.
Were the messages sexual or inappropriate? Or are you upset he gave her his number and confided in her?

jennifermal · 25/10/2024 07:25

User364837 · 25/10/2024 07:22

Did he actually have an affair? What did he do, it’s not very clear from your OP.
Were the messages sexual or inappropriate? Or are you upset he gave her his number and confided in her?

He works night shift so he has asking her to meet up after work.

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