Found video of girls from dps office stripping in a lift on his laptop

[PosieParker]

I looked through his email tonight and found a video forwarded of two girls from his office stripping in a lift that he had forwarded and lots of pictures of psuedo lesbian and tits out shots and videos that he had searched for online during his working day. He is the boss of the UK and exchanging emails with salesmen. I truly thought he had grown up in our ten years and three, another on the way, children. I am so angry that I asked him to leave the house. I have no idea what to do. It brings up the trust issue and that my dp is not, by a long way, the man I thought he was. He often socialises without me and with the people from his office, god knows what they get up to now that I know this.

I'm amazed that 'the state of the house' (the home of his children) is supposedly an excuse for risking his marriage and hanging out with arts and snorting coke...

What a guy...

No, these are other aspects that needed discussing in our relationship..... he didn't get off that lightly!!
God I sound like a complete idiot. I think we have lots of issues to deal with but he's not that deep and to expect insight from him as to why, without putting words in his mouth, was a great leap that was never going to happen. He has said this will all change and he won't be out late and I'm sure for a few months he'll remember how annoyed I was and gradually this resolve will errode. So back to relate for us for him to gain a depper understanding of why and where's he coming from.
He does lie a lot and so discussing issues is difficult as I presume he's lying and then it becomes a discussion about lying and not the issue, if you see what I mean.