Am I overreacting?

[OpalFox]

Me and partner had a lovely meal with our 3 year old. Put her to bed. We stayed up watched telly. Went to bed watched some more telly. I fell asleep about half 11. I've woken up and bf has gone to the pub no note or text. I know this because done it before. I think it's wrong but need to be told if it's normal and if it is I need to try and get over it and not get upse

This would be a real no no.

It's premeditated and he's doing it behind your back, because he knows it's completely out of order.

What else does the sneak do?

He could well have a drink or drug problem that you're completely unaware of.

@OhDearMuriel
He could well have a drink or drug problem that you're completely unaware of.

Yes, or a zipper problem. I'm afraid I'm going to have to suggest getting tested for STD's, OP. What he's doing is really out of order.

@OpalFox how did it go? All his creeping around would freak me out a bit

He got out of bed and went to the pub after 11.30? I'm sorry to say this, but it wasn't the pub he got out of a nice warm bed for.

Weird time of night - I'd assume he was seeing someone else tbh. Pub at 9.30pm maybe, but at almost midnight? Seems unlikely.

I would be happy if my DH did this. Pubs around me shut at 11 during the week and a few at 11.30/midnight on the weekend. Is he actually going to the pub?