Me and partner have been together 5 years
we have just recently moved in together
I have children so does he
this is a noticeably bigger house
everything was fine when we lived apart
But since we have moved in together
he complains about my cooking
cleaning
what I’m cooking
washing
washing up
I ask him to do anything it’s ok and it’s not done even just moving a wash basket of the table
he works all day I’m a stay at home mum
i literally do everything
he’s not put washing machine one once or washed up
he works from home and he sees everything I do all day but still finds something to complain about even though he never did when we lived apart ?
for example I cook dinner
he buys his kids takeaways because they don’t like it even though they havnt tried it
I ask for washing to be taken upstairs
because I’m disabled
hes left it on table for 4 days
I cook dinner he finishes work at 5.30
instead of putting dishes in dishwasher
complains about dinner and leaves the plates on the side
he’s never done this in his life
he always washed up at my old home
if I cooked always said my food was amazing
always helped with the kids
im now miles away from my family
no friends and feel like I’m being used to babysit and clean while he works
havnt been passionate for a while
because I’m asleep or knocked up on pain killers to help with the pain because my disability
he reply’s to his ex wife
he reply’s to his son
he would sooner meet up with his ex wife and chat to her at his sons football
which by the way I’m never invited too to watch
then listen to me if I ask for one simple thing to be done
I’m fed up
I feel lonely
I want to go back to my home town
I feel trapped and not appreciated