Yesterday, my husband humiliated me when I was talking to him about content for a story I was writing. I was shocked and angry, as we've have these chats before and he always said he enjoyed them!
I left the room to clear my head and do chores and later told him that I was not happy with his "aggressive belittling of me" while I was being open and vulnerable to him. We have a deal where if he's interrupted me, I will immediately end the conversation and walk away... Which is exactly what happened.
In the bedroom, while I was getting ready for sleep, he apologized, said he enjoyed my stories and wanted me to continue. I said "don't worry, I won't give you any reason to be a "d" again, I'm not talking to you about my ideas anymore. Again, he apologized, disregarding what I had just said.
Then he wanted sex... We had a huge fight just a week ago, where he said I used sex as a weapon, so I told him I'll never say no to him, even if I'm not in the mood. He apparently forgot about that, so I allowed him to use my body (consensually, I did agree to it, without pressure, just didn't care to). He got off, of course, while I obviously didn't. He asked if he could do anything for me and I said he could get off of me so I could shower and go to sleep.
Cut to the next day and he thinks everything from last night is done and dusted, so I had to remind him "just because we had a talk you didn't listen to me about and had sex I wasn't in the mood for, doesn't mean we're ok, or even "better", as he said he thought things were today.
Now he's ignoring the situation altogether and wants to talk about anything else (I'm currently typing this while he's rambling about sushi or some BS). What the heck do I do?