Will try to cut a long story short..... dp with ex when i met him they had a son who later turns out might not be his, i found her diaries she had plotted to leave dp from the moment her son was born and that dp was every name under the sun. Along comes me, she leaves. Blames me for him leaving her (she left him) dp and i have been together 5 years now and have dd and ds. DP's mother, Father and Sister shut us out and revolve their whole lives around his ex and the son. dp's father died in an accident last year. I was not allowed to go to the funeral with him - his mother turned up with his sister on one arm, his ex on the other and left him on his own. I have always sent her pics of our two and pushed dp to contact her and try to get her to see the children. DP started phoning her every week a few weeks before xmas and every time he asked if she'd like to see the children she said no. Neither of them have had so much as a birthday card from her. I told dp i didnt want our two knowing about the ex's son til they are old enough to understand as his ex causes a lot of trouble for us if he has anything to do with her. His mother thinks I'm doing it out of spite.
Anyway!! (that was cut very short!!) We celebrated dd's birthday yesterday as her real birthday was xmas day. We took the children to her house. I decided it was best for me to wait in the car and for dp to take the children in and talk to her without me in the way as it's obviously all my fault!?!. DP has just rung me and played a message from his mobile. It's his mother saying "Why did you come all this wayu for HER to sit in the car. Obviously this relationship is not going to work and I'm not happy with this"
Am I missing something?????????????
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OMG!!! FURIOUS with dp's Mother........
Zephyrcat · 04/01/2005 16:50
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