I've NC for this but I am a regular on mumsnet.
I've been with my partner for 3 years. He's kind and lovely. Very caring and will do anything for me.
The one thing that's always bothered me is our different sex drives. I'd probably be happy with a couple of times a week, and as we don't live together, sometimes that works out anyway.
He would be up for it twice a day, but he has come to accept that won't be happening. His marriage broke down due to his sex drive and he doesn't want a repeat of that. He's older and wiser too!
The thing is though, he can't seem to just cuddle and say stroke my back (as an example), he always goes for boobs and pubic bone area. I just get fed up of it. I don't want to be touched there all the time. What's wrong with a hug, arm stroke.
This is my first relationship since divorce so I guess I'm questioning myself on what's normal...