Dh has been snappy and miserable for quite a long time but generally fine he just doesn’t have much patience with the dc’s. Last year on holiday he was very argumentative mainly aimed at dd and they bicker like siblings which drives me mad as he’s a grown man.
Things were going better after and this month he took her abroad while I stayed behind as I have work commitments. First few days were fine then I get to hear from dd that he’s being awful. Arguing with her then prodded her hard on the shoulder and had a go at her in public because she kept going on about wanting things from the shops apparently. He also made some comments about how he’s embarrassed of her in front of others and her there. When I told him I knew about this and I was very angry and upset, he got very angry and defensive saying it’s all made up but I know dd wouldn’t lie. She’s really upset and stuck with him until they come back in a couple of days. He’s obviously angry because his behaviour’s been exposed and he’s playing the victim. I’ve just had enough of this and dd has too, she is only 13. What should be my next move?