Who sent the picture

[Anotherperspective24]

So me and my long time BF haven’t been on the best terms. It’s his world, his feelings and if you don’t like it, then hit the road.
so I’ve been living on my own (share 50% custody with my ex husband with out 10 yr old). When I don’t have my son or when I’m not out with my GF’s he & I do stuff together from time to time.

Our favorite place is his beach house or lake house. Well this past weekend we had a very nice dinner then decided to go on a sunset boat ride. His best friend (whom I adore, would do anything for anyone in need and he’d be MY FIRST call if I ever needed help or was in trouble) and his arrogant - a$$hole of a friend - who brought some girl he just met off a dating site. Mind you, he and my friend are having troubles and she has moved out.

well I honestly didn’t even want her to know he came with us and certainly didn’t want her to know that he brought another girl. My BF Is very attractive, has anything in the world he wants and if he doesn’t have it and wants it … he gets it. He has mention his friends ex several times here lately that I find to be odd but we did spend lots of time with them. Since she had moved out, I have heard nothing from her and have since been blocked on all her social media platforms. FINE - I Know there was cheating on both of their parts and thought maybe she’s embarrassed.

well…. SOMEONE sent her a picture of the girl her ex was with ON THE BOAT… ON THE BOAT! Of course his friend thinks it was me but in my mind … IT HAD TO BE MY BF!!! It could’ve have only be me or him AND I KNOW I DIDNT!

I’m so mad, upset and down right angry that I’m accused of this and I KNOW IT WAS ME! He has to be HIM!!! How do I handle this conflict. Is my thought process right or am I overthinking this???

I've read this three times and I'm still stumped!

I've read it once and can't be bothered to try reading it again!
Grow up!

First of all: your post is incredibly difficult to follow because it involves way too much irrelevant information, while typos further complicate matters.
Secondly: you didn’t send the picture, so why wreck your head about it? They aren’t together any more and you have nothing to do with her, so stay out of their drama and leave these 2 people to it.

Ok you went on a boat trip - you , your bf, his best friend, another friend (who recently split with your friend) and a girl he's dating.

Someone sent your friend a photo of her ex and this woman one the boat. You are chief suspect?

There was 5 of us on the boat. Me, my boyfriend, his best friend, his arrogant a$$ friend that brought a new girl with him (met her on a dating site). The arrogant friend and a friend of me and my BF (lived with the arrogant friend until she recently moved out). She somehow received a picture that night on the boat of the new girl with the arrogant friend.

I suspect my boyfriend sent it to her. Since she no longer lives with the arrogant friend my boyfriend may be talking to her secretly.

she sent the picture to the arrogant friend comment about the new girl he was with. No one (other than the 5 on the boat) could’ve sent the picture to her and 2 of the 5 where on the picture.

Ok so suspects-

Your bf- does he have a beef with his friend? More loyalty to your friend?

Bf best friend- how well dies he know your friend?

The friend- sent it himself to make ex jealous?

The women- sent it to seal the relationship?

You - loyalty to your friend?

Who has your friend's number? Obviously you and her ex do. Does anyone else?

Can you not just ask who sent it? Why does it matter?

Why on earth would you immediately suspect that your boyfriend is secretly communicating with her? If that was the case he could have just shared the picture normally.
You do realise that it’s most likely that her ex sent it to make her jealous and illicit a reaction, right?
God this is all so ridiculous, I can’t believe that adults tie themselves into knots about such bullshit.

Is this the plot of a weird teen horror ? Are you going to disappear from the boat one by one ?

How big is the boat? Are you all sat together? Surely just look at the picture and see what position it came from and you’d know who was sat where

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Surely the recipient of the picture knows who sent it? Just ask her.

Literally just following in case anyone works this out

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she sent the picture to the arrogant friend comment about the new girl he was with.

What's this comment in English?? Who's she? I thought he was alleged to have sent it? And who's comment on what??

It’s really difficult to follow what is going on here.

What is really clear is that this is group of people are awful. Lots of unnecessary drama, and why on earth would you hang out with people you don’t like or trust? I especially don’t understand why you are with that bf. You don’t seem to like him. What’s the point of the relationship?

A boyfriend should be someone you like and trust and when you go out with friends it should be happy and comfortable with no drama. The fact that you don’t know that is what you have to fix (not getting riled up about who took a photo).

You are either very young or in need of counselling to find out what healthy relationships and friendships are about.

It’s his world, his feelings and if you don’t like it, then hit the road.

I'd hit the road love. Leave them to it. Get on with life. He ain't worth it.

Or perhaps it was the new girl who sent the photo? That seems the most likely culprit.

This sounds like something from The Only Eay is Essex.

All this fusd over a photo.

So what if arrogant friend thinks you sent the photo? Why do you care? Don't you just say "how can i send it i'm blocked everywhere for starters"

If your BF sent it that might prove to be a bit more complicated, does he want her to be completely over her ex so he can make a move?

Does the ex F even care,?

Do you even care?

Sounds like you should be with BF's best friend and exF should be with your BF.

What’s the point of the relationship?

Well BF may be unpleasant but he certainly sounds rich..

Ask her who sent it? Photos don't get received from invisible numbers

Maybe the beach house and the lake house?

Christ alive...that hurt to read 😵‍💫

Are you all teenagers ffs?? Grow up!

I don’t get the point of this post. You know you didn’t send it then it was your bf. So you know the answer?

Did you just want to tell people how rich your bf was and how many houses and boats he has?

So…. Your BF who you don’t seem to like very much, his best friend, who you like a lot, another friend who you really don’t like and his new girlfriend who you don’t seem to like went on a boat trip.

The friend you don’t like has an ex-girlfriend who doesn’t like you. You seem to think your boyfriend is too friendly with this woman.

Your boyfriend is apparently wealthy.

Someone sent the ex girlfriend (who doesn’t like you) a photo of the guy you don’t like and his new girlfriend and there is drama because……..

Who cares?