I need to be honest to tell the story. My boyfriend has a very likely Been on some sort of drug binge recently. I don't really know a lot About that side of his life , but I know occasionally he does Certain drugs. I don't really need the.Why are you with a Drug user questions because it's complicated. His mental health has always Been
Terrible.
At the weekend he was delusional. Sweating and seeing things. Talking a load of paranoid nonsense. I'm not sure if there was some slight truth in some of it. The last four days I have had the crisis team out. Paramedics have been out. I have spoken to His doctor surgery. He has declined to go with the paramedics to the mental health clinic.Because he has capacity , they cannot take him. He has not slept properly for a week and spends most of the night awake.And the day. I have been very stressed trying to get him to get help. I have not seen him for 3 days Because he is in his own world and needs to be alone.
This morning I rang him at five am. He had been awake most of the night again. Overnight he has decided he wants to go on the train to his daughter who lives forty minutes away. She suffers from bipolar and has recently had a manic episode. He was behaving in very similar ways at his flat.And I had to call an ambulance. She was sectioned and has only recently gone back home. Here are my partner have bonded over their mental health. They seem to think that nobody else gets it. He has started to say on A.Regular basis that she understands him.Nobody else does. I work in a medical setting and I am a very emphatic person. I have guided him through.What medications will help with his anxiety and sleeping problems. I have sympathised completely with the symptoms having and how scary they are. I have been struggling to sleep myself. I don't understand how he has come to the conclusion.That only his daughter gets it when I am trying to give him so many options so he is not alone.
He is too scared to come to my house but he feels he can go on a train to hers. His reason is she will be able to tell him how to manage his panic attacks because he feels like he is going to die. I kind of said to him that I feel pretty useless at this stage. Is daughter is twenty six and he's fifty one. She has a very childlike lifestyle because of her illness and spends a lot of time with random.People chilling in her house like students still. She's a really nice girl , but her life style is very different to her dads. His age he needs to be looking at more sensible options than chilling on his daughters.Sofa to get better. I tried to explain to him that whilst visiting her.Today is fine.He still needs to speak to a professional or a doctor For medication to bring down these symptoms. He hung up because he presumed.I was just going to start as always.
I feel like my energy is all gone. I've supported him for the last few days.And the verdict for him is his Daughter will be the best answer out of all the professional roads to go down. He now won't answer the phone and I start work in an hour. I'm exhausted and feel like a nag. What do I do? I feel helpless and useless.