I name this puffy eyes as I’m typing this away with the most puffy eyes from crying early hours this morning.
My husband picked me up from our town as I met a friend and was over the limit to drive home. I wasn’t drunk.
He seemed fine picking me up, we got home chatted. But he became annoyed when I started to doze off as he felt he had a wasted evening with me.
He then mentioned that I was taking the p* that I asked him to pick me up last night as he had drove a lot today up the country and back for a day out that was planned.
He went in the other room. He just kept ignoring me. I was kneeling on the bed over him and I was crying, saying Im sorry, I don’t understand, you shouldn’t have picked me up. Etc
He kept saying stop spitting at me, I wasn’t spitting but talking above him and sorry disgusting as it sounds I must have been spraying as I was frantically / begging him what it felt like.
He pushed me off the bed I fell on my back, there was washing, washing basket , suitcase on the floor which I fell on. My arm is now bruised.
When I fell I cried and said my arm, he said oh come on. Then said if you had tidied it up in here …. Can’t remember the rest
i said he shouldn’t have pushed me and he replied you was coming at me , in my face, you wouldn’t leave me alone
is that justifiable.
we have not been getting along lately but thought we sorted things out, we just had a lovely holiday last week.he said to me last night it’s over, we’re not working.
I don’t know how to be when he wakes up.