Having been cheated on in a previous marriage, I have become anxious over time about it happening again. I re married last year and have been extremely happy until very recently when i discovered my husband has been secretly messaging a younger and very attractive business colleague. I fully understand he is absolutely allowed to have female friends and the nature of his business means he has good working relationships with lots of people. What really bothers me is that his Whatsapp messages are archived which means they are not on show. Having read some of them, he talks about meeting for lunch and arranging to take her for a spin in his sports car. I have also noticed that they are friends on Instagram and were on Facebook too but have now disconnected. I am a little suspicious now as to why? I also noticed there was a notification on TikTok from this woman but I am unable to see any messages. I am becoming rather paranoid but I feel there is partly good reason for it. What are your thoughts?