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[Confusedinlove7]

Hi everyone I would love to hear other people's take on these messages who started an arguement? What do you think this means. I'll add that found out about the reps through a group chat where he had posted telling his friends about it and another girls states she had to listen to him whinging about it at 7 am. Did he start the arguement and over reacting or did I by saying you didn't tell me?!

Brown texts like a teenager and seems passive aggressive / trying to make a point without just saying what the problem is. White is irritated and has no respect for brown.

If this is a couple, they're doomed.

Are you 16 years old?

White seemed to go from 0 - aggressive & throwing personal insults for very little reason.

The brown messages are from someone who is very insecure in the relationship. Scared of irtitating the other person and talking in hints. The white messages are from someone who has very little patience with the other person, and seems very irritated by them. This is not the communication of a happy couple and white will probably finish with brown before long.

This relationship is doomed. I'm not surprised white when from 0-10 so fast though if Brown always acts like that all the time.

That childish nonsense would drive me mad.

Are they both 6?

It is all text speak of the youth, and therefore, beyond my comprehension. For starter, what are Birthday reps? Replies maybe? IDK lol.
You asked him out of the blue if he was in a mood with you from what I can tell? That is a sure fire question to get someone's back up. Were you alluding to seeing him active on whattsapp, but not texting you, so talking to others on his birthday. I'd say that's none of your beeswax how and when he uses whattsapp and that comes across as paranoia, so he might have a point if you question him often. I'd advise you turn your 'last seen' feature off on it, so you're not tempted to snoop and question if you can't resist. I have mine off, so nobody gets to snoop on how I spend my time.

I'd assume the messages were between children.

Ridiculous on all levels

Also, it looks like he's pretty sure he told you about his birthday and is surprised at you claiming you didn't know. So surprised, he thinks you're being an idiot.

I read it as White is pissed off with Brown's neediness.
There's something about 'normal x's' - I wonder if Brown is making a deal of how White ends a text...not enough 'kisses' or something? I dunno.

Then you've got the 'didn't tell me'. Why does White have to report back?

Think Brown might be suffocating.

The person typing the brown texts on the right started it and kept it going. The person typing the white on the left was just having a normal conversation.

Oh...normal X's - does that refer to posting on X?

What it means at the end is he doesn't want to speak to you again, so you can assume the friendship/relationship is over, he really doesn't like you and wants you to leave him alone.

@pictoosh nope, normal was a typo, she meant No Kisses, as she later clarified.
Just back to no kisses?

When you're 13, an x at the end of a text means a lot.

As bad as each other

Oh...no kisses. I see.

Then 'r u in mood with me?'

Yeah that would annoy hell out of me. I haven't got it in me to be reassuring people over that sort of nonsense.

I'm in camp White.

Well neither side comes off too well but tbh I'd side with the Brown, which i assume is the female.

Brown is way WAY too clingy and would seriously piss me off!

Just to clarify normally he would always put a kiss on end of messages and don't if he's in a mood with me. He was moody because our son stayed off school poorly.

Neither is mature enough for a relationship.

Jesus!!! You have a child together?? Genuinely thought this was two teens!

Also 'didn't tell me about it' reads like an accusation, floating out there on its own as it is.

Assume reps are some sort of gym routine. Why does Brown need to know?

Oh for fuck’s sake.