Confused by this hookup with ex ?

[LexiAllen]

So I hooked up with a ex situationship. Before we hookedup he kept asking if I’ve kissed anyone since us and ifI’ve slept with anyone? I told him no and he kept tellingme “I don’t believe you just tell me the truth. I kept tellinghim no I haven’t, yet he kept pressing me about it. Iasked him if it’s because he’s worried about sexualdiseases. He said no I just want to know. Then he endedit with saying I don’t believe you. He even asked me to"swear to god that I haven't" After we got done hooking up he started texting me casually? He asked me where I ended up going that night after we hooked up.
later the next day he started telling me I left things in his car etc after we hooked up. I told him he could just toss it.. we texted a little bit after… and that was it.

Then you are wasting your time with this
person.

Delete his number, pull yourself together and raise your standards.

You're trying to lock him down and he doesn't want to be! Please have some self respect.

What was it that you left in the car?

My perfume that isn’t expensive. Then he told me he found my sock that I left

Why would you not tell him to drop it off at your house or something? Telling him to toss it sounds like 'fuck off, I don't want to see you again' which sounds like far more confusing behaviour than his behaviour. If he text you after it's because he wants to keep you around in some way.....whether that's for an ego boost or for a hook up in future none of us know.

Have you posted about this before? Not that it matters of course but the sock sounds familiar.

It's hard to know what you want really.

You had sex with a man who was unpleasant to you; said you felt nothing for him; told him to throw your stuff away; are overanaylising him viewing your SM stories; say you want a relationship; want to know if people think he likes you...

I can't work out whether you want a relationship with him or jut want the ego boost of thinking he likes you as more than just a hook up.

Either way, it doesn't sound like the beginnings of a.great love story does it?

I suspect that, if you did get together with him, this wouldn't be the end of your posts trying to work out his feelings or intentions.

She has posted previously, quite a few times, given the same advice, doesn't take it, goes quiet, posts again

The reality of "FWB" is right here in your post. You're being treated without respect because the situation required almost none. You didn't care about the guy but still willingly share yourself intimately? Head fuck inevitable. Reliability, mutual attraction and opportunity trumps any "friendship" because deeper feelings aren't needed for a bit of excitement. Obviously he's served a purpose when you've wanted your needs satiating. Strictly speaking he's done what's written on the tin by giving you intimacy without the fuss of a relationship. No genuine connection but you weren't looking for one anyway. What's gotten to you is his asking after your own recent sexual history prior to re engaging with you. You felt somehow judged and you weren't honest with him. Calling this insecure or none of his business suggests he shouldn't care a fig about where you've been since or with whom. You want a relationship? Leave this FWB shit alone and value yourself above someone's shag pal. You're worth more than you realise.

This is my first time ever posting on this forum

He's not the doctor is he?

Haven't seen a thread about him for a while!

You guys are funny I’ve never posted on here before me and this man are 23 and no he’s not a doctor nor have I ever dated one

This is cringeworthy....