She gave him photos to put up in house

[Oddoneoutx]

My partner moved into a new house and he has a female best friend he met on a dating site. They’ve been friends for 6 years. Since I’ve been with him 4 years, she’s shit stirred. Told him I’m mental, skint and loads of other lies. She told him to move me out.
she brought him fridge magnet photos of them both and I said i found this odd.
as soon as anyone walks in they will see the fridge and pictures of them.
i feel it’s a statement from her however am I being jealous or is it a bit odd.

How many more threads are you going to start about this abusive cunt before you smell the coffee and dump his manipulative controlling arse?

You’re wasting your life on the piece of shit

I mean this kindly, but why on Earth haven’t you left him yet?

There are a few threads you’ve posted over the years about him being abusive, I’ve quoted this reply as you say you’ve proved to him that you have savings, but in your post two months ago you replied to someone else saying you have no savings, so I think you really need to look into this asap if you do have savings (and a good amount) for you to be able to move asap.

For Gods sake!! Wake up. The replies here show just how obvious this is to everyone.

HE is the problem. Ever heard of the term ‘frenemy’ - when someone pretends to be your friend but is actually toxic as fuck and is really a complete bitch? This is the boyfriend equivalent. You don’t need to have massive discussions on the tedious detail. He’s not your friend, he doesn’t love you, he doesn’t have your back, he’s a toxic little shit-stirrer and you will feel like shit for as long as you stay with him. He’s a bitch.

She’s not important - he’s no friend to her either. If it wasn’t her it would be someone else he would be playing off against you.

Get wise and dump him. He’s poison.

You need a trauma counselor ASAP. He is abusing you, but you are unable to see it because of your own issues, probably stemming from childhood. This will be your life forever unless you act.

He's horrendous. She is not the problem and it is unlikely she is saying these things.

This is not your man, OP. Save yourself from this headfuck.

Do you know what he does with these videos? Makes me wonder if he shows these videos to his friend when they have dinner together. You don't deserve to be treated like this.

@Oddoneoutx why on earth are you with this man? This is the ONLY question you should be asking yourself. He’s obviously leading this “friend” on at best, or still sleeping with her at worst. She wouldn’t have such an issue with you if it was just friendship, and they met on a dating site! He doesn’t give a shit about anyone other than himself and you seriously need to take the blinkers off. I can’t believe you have been tolerating this for so long 😞 Don’t let yourself be treated in this way and, please for your sake, stop trying to make something work with a toxic manipulator who does not care about you.

female best friend he met on a dating site

sometimes he videos you when you argue

Blah blah blah All the other madness you put up with / tolerate….

none of this is healthy.
break up and get as far away as you can…

@Oddoneoutx just seen someone say up thread about your previous posts and I remember the one you wrote about him being abusive. How long are you going to put up with this abusive waste of space? You recognise it yourself because you have made several posts about him over the years, so what will it take for you actually leave him? Why are you trying to appease him all the time, clean up after him, look after his dogs, letting him disrespect you with other women, etc etc. I’m sure you have zero energy left for yourself when you are constantly walking on eggshells and trying to not make him angry. Do you not have family you could go and stay with?

She’s not the problem, he is. If she’s genuinely saying these things about you and stirring then why is he allowing it? Why isn’t he backing you and telling her to stop?
Either he’s lying and making up what she’s saying to annoy you or he’s enjoying the drama and likes feeling like he’s wanted by her and you.

Stick googly eyes on the fridge magnets.

Jesus. Leave will you. This is not ok.

Leave him.

Wow. That escalated. He’s as abusive as they come and she sees him as hers. It’s a fucking mess. Move out and ditch them. Please.