My boyfriend is late 40s and has been on so many different tablets for pain since weve been together. Some of them kill his sex drive. Some make him tired all the time. Hes ready for bed at 7pm most nights. He wakez up groggy.
He has recently started having a joint again and i dont really like it anymore.
He was put on pregablin and taken off amitripline in the last few weeks. Ive started to notice the most pointless little lies with him and its giving me weird anxiety.
3 weeks ago i had sent him an asda shop. Usually he thanks me and lets me know its here. I sat waiting and waiting. Wasnt answering his phone. An hour after the slot he text and said sorry i had fallen asleep. 3 hours later im still awaiting a reply and at 11pm he finally rings me. He was sitting at his daughters an hour away. I thought this was really strange that hed ignored my calls. Didnt text back. Didnt let me know he was going out. Didnt care about me.
I went to his house last night. Hes a very tidy person. He takes care of his clothes and has a system with his washing. His wash basket was overflowing. I had a bath and went to grab some of his washing to go in with mine. He had loads of wet clothes in the basket and it had been folded so was clean. I asked why his clothes were folded and dumped in his wash basket going smelly. He had no answer really.
I then noticed his expensive and only coat wasnt hanging up in the hallway and hes so routined he will always hang it up. I asked where it was. He said it was in the wash basket. It wasnt! I asked him twice if hes lost it and he said not.
He has no money left until pay day now and i know him very well! He has some wash tablets left and he usually asks me to grab him some or pinches mine. There was a huge second box under his sink and a comfort. 2 months ago this happened too and he told a story of a box had been sent to his flat in a womans name. I didnt believe this because theres no intercom so you cant have parcels delivered to the flat.
Today he rang me and said he needed to go as was cooking and about to eat it. I text and asked if hed eaten. He replied no ive not been bothered and been laid on sofa all afternoon. I called him and pointed out hed either cooked or hadnt but why was he changing his story over cooking a curry. He started asking me why i was looking for an issue over curry.
I appreciate reading this i sound like an inspector. But this is all so weird.
I also had to clean his bathroom last night as it appeared to have sick on toilet rim and seat and it looked like green toothpaste in sink but his is white.
I really dont know if its the pregablin or if hes just turned really odd.