Going to keep it as quick as possible to read (I'm new to mumsnet)
I'm 28 year old female. First time mum to a 3 month old baby girl. My partner is 29.
Whilst pregnant everything was perfect, lovey dovey, we couldn't wait to be parents.
Since having baby my partner stopped hearing her crying at night after about 4 days of being home with her.. all night feeds were left to me (I'd had stitches after birth which got infected twice, it was agony) getting in and out of the bed constantly all night was painful and he still didn't help. (He does work but I still think he should of helped)
He would disappear and say he was going to see a friend for 1 hour and would be gone for 6 hours.
I then had to move into a home for pregnant women/women with kids already as I was homeless.. visitors are allowed to stay until 10pm. He would leave after about spending 2-3 hours here visiting me and the baby. He couldn't wait to get home because he smokes cannabis and obviously couldn't do that here.
He would also pick going to the pub/the bar over staying with me and our daughter since she was 2 weeks old. The one day I was crying because I was really upset and needed the help and he still chose to go out and get drunk.
Now the most recent thing he's done to upset me is after me and him had an argument about 2 weeks ago. I told him exactly how I felt about the whole situation, might of cussed him out a bit he then went out with his friend and his friends girlfriend and told the friends girlfriend to bring her friend out (another female) he claims he hasn't cheated or nothing happened but I'm devastated. I don't knownif I believe him or if I could ever forgive him. After the past few weeks of him doing absolutley nothing to help me and now this I really don't know if I should be with this man child
What do you guys think would you stay or would you go.. am I over reacting