Would you be annoyed if a guy you're seeing didn't reply for nearly 3 days?

[Situationship101]

Just wondering if you would be annoyed or feel disrespected if the guy you're seeing ignored your message with a question in it for nearly 3 days and then gets back in touch like nothing happened.

I would just not reply

@nuttynatty1 that's what I've done , I've not replied

I wouldn't be annoyed, I'd be hurt & he'd be dumped!

@YeahComeOnThen yes I definitely felt hurt . Good to see I'm not over reacting to this and that others would feel the same.

I'd not reply ever again, and block.

If you aren't on a mans mind for 3 whole days then he isn't serious about a relationship with you OP. I just couldn't entertain someone like that anymore I would loose interest at the first sign of a di*khead 😅Please don't waste anymore time on this one.

@bluebells89 thanks, he read it right away and just left me on read for almost 3 days , then gets back in touch not even acknowledging the last text

What's seeing in this instance, casually meeting now and again or proper relationship? If serious or on the way to becoming serious then no, I would not be happy with this.

Shabby, disrespectful behavior that he obviously thinks is ok and acceptable

Yes it's ignorant, I would ignore. He is bad news.

@Fuckstix it's more of a situationship but it still stung that he blatantly ignored me like that

tbf, i go a week without speaking to mine just out of habit. but now i haven't seen him in 5 weeks he speaks to me every day

The cheek of him to come back like all is ok, he must be testing my boundaries and what I will put up with

I feel your pain OP. I've had exactly this situation where he completely ignored my question and carried on as if I'd not asked anything. When I re-asked the question he ignored it again and just went straight into finalising our date! It wasn't so much the time he took to reply, it was more the fact that he ignored the question - twice - then pretended he never received the message.

So one screenshot (showing 2 ticks) later... and I never heard from him again.

I went from being annoyed to finding it funny that his best effort to wriggle out of being called out on something was to run away and hide 😂

Yep.

Lots of games at the start of relationships, I would keep him at arms lengths a little bit if he's going to do that but I don't think I'd end it. I certainly wouldn't give any satisfaction by calling him up on it. Depends how much you like him I suppose as to whether you're willing wade through the early relationship mind games.

Just ignore him and when he asks why:

"No offence Tony but whilst I don't want to jump into anything heavy I do want a certain level of interest and to go several days without so much as a text just isn't what I'm looking for. So I won't be seeing you again. No hard feelings, take care".

Calm, undramatic and straight to the point. Don't block him unless he starts harassing you. It's commonly advised here but unless there's a real need to put a barrier in front of someone (i.e if they are harassing you) it's just petulant and makes the blocker look a twat!

Early relationship mindgames?

I really couldn't be arsed. One whiff of mindgames and I'm off. Yes, it might be a shame if I was keen on him but you're just setting yourself up for a fall if you stick around and put up with it.

Challenging, questioning, calling someone out on something gives them a chance to apologise, discuss and rectify if needed. Or, in my situation's case, run away and hide. It's how they handle it that is the deciding factor - be that "I've dodged a bullet there" or "nah, he's not the one for me".

I think relationships shouldn't be this hard. Something it took a long time to realise. I spent a lot of my life wasting my time on idiots. Sometimes I think I still am 🤣

Treat em mean, keep em keen. Old school Andrew Tate.

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Yes annoyed & probably wouldn't reply x

@Situationship101 if it’s a situationship then it sounds like he’s treating it as just that?

He’s just not that into you. He wouldn’t do that to someone he really liked.

Anyone who doesn’t reply after a few days I generally delete their number. I think it’s a crappy thing to do.