I like this guy, I’d been on some dates with him. Last week he went on holiday so understandably we couldn’t meet up, which was fine by me but said “let’s arrange something for the week I’m back”. He then texted me on Monday at 5 to ask if I was free this week, I replied 3 hours later at 8pm and said I can do tomorrow or Thursday. He then said to me at approx 6 pm Monday “ah damn, sorry I was out like a light by then or I would have said tonight but I’m in my work stuff and I’ve not got a change of clothes with me either” (works in a medical setting as a physio) and I took this as a no for tonight anyway, he then just asked me how my day was going at work.
Now, I’m really struggling emotionally at the moment anyway , and I’m a bit confused. I feel there’s mixed messages here, he didn’t suggest an alternative date and me being precious got a bit offended by that. In the end I did text back saying “not to worry, are you free any other night this week?” But I feel super frustrated by it all, I’m just at the point where I’ve found him to be a bit inconsistent anyway, do I just have that conversation with him and say sorry this is too much? Idk? But I asked him anyway and said “are you free this week?”
He’s not generally good with responses the original texts were sent on Tuesday and todays Friday and , he replied at 7 am this morning with “I’m so sorry, I kept thinking you didn’t reply to me ffs, I’m not gonna be free now as I’m busy the weekend maybe Sunday but can’t say 100%, how have you been all week? How’s work been? I’m genuinely so sorry!”
I’m stuck? What do I do