I've just turned 40. And I've been dating for nearly two years. It's a constant stream of men pretending they want a relationship, then running a mile when we have sex or I don't put out. It's that grim.
I am really thinking it's time to give up and I won't meet anyone.
I am a good catch, but sadly rarely meet men in real life.
Really gutted my life has turned out this way.
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Do I need to give up? 40 and dating
givingupp · 16/04/2024 16:15
givingupp · 16/04/2024 16:26
That's lovely. When did you meet? ohthejoys21
Online dating used to be a great way to meet people. It's a completely different place now, since the pandemic.
givingupp · 16/04/2024 16:26
That's lovely. When did you meet? ohthejoys21
Online dating used to be a great way to meet people. It's a completely different place now, since the pandemic.
talkingteapots · 16/04/2024 17:11
I feel for you.
Have you thought about an older man? Late 50s or even 60s.
They may not be as warped from living in a social media world.
talkingteapots · 16/04/2024 17:11
I feel for you.
Have you thought about an older man? Late 50s or even 60s.
They may not be as warped from living in a social media world.
talkingteapots · 16/04/2024 17:28
@SamW98
Point well made.
Didn't know this - as I am obviously, not single. X
SamW98 · 16/04/2024 17:22
Seriously the over 50’s out there are some of the worst porn addled sex pests who have absolutely no idea how to speak to women.
Speak to any single woman in her 50’s who will tell you how dreadful their dating experiences with men the same age.
talkingteapots · 16/04/2024 17:11
I feel for you.
Have you thought about an older man? Late 50s or even 60s.
They may not be as warped from living in a social media world.
ELCismyspiritnana · 16/04/2024 18:18
I'm coming to the same conclusion. I did meet someone a few years ago, but when we split it was post covid and its a very different prospect now.
I'm trying to get used to the fact that I'm going to be on my own but I'm only 42 and I can't lie, I'm very sad about it.
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