In relationship with DP for 3 years. Was in abusive marriage before. Have a 7 year old from first marriage.
DP starts random fights at random times. Eg we are in the car driving to school, and I ask him
how his friend is doing. He said his grandma died and I say I’m sorry to hear that and is he ok. DP says “sure you are”. I ask what that’s supposed to mean. He says everyone knows I’m a selfish bitch and don’t care about anyone else.
He during fights has called me worthless, full of shit, nothing without my parents (I come from a well to do family), says I have daddy issues and everything is so daddy would love me. Other times he’s lovely.
He never apologizes ever after the stuff he says.
Today we went to the shops and he yelled at me for spending too long picking rice.
I don’t know what’s going on.
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Don’t know if this is abuse
Poweringthrough9 · 03/04/2024 20:37
Mirandawrongs · 03/04/2024 21:10
very soon he’ll say something like “I can understand why your ex was the way they were towards you”.
just leave. You know you have to.
sending you much empathy, sympathy and strength
Poweringthrough9 · 15/04/2024 11:19
He’s said it already. My daughter splashed him in the pool and he made such a scene then stormed off and when I challenged him he pushed me. In front of everyone. While on holiday. I’ve ended it. He’s being nice now and crying but looking at other stuff he’s done - eg pretended to look at other women to punish me for being confident, grabbed me by the collar, called me too fucking thick to do x and y, he’s the problem. Not me. He says I’m a selfish cunt who brings out the worse in him and he’s never been like this.
Mirandawrongs · 03/04/2024 21:10
very soon he’ll say something like “I can understand why your ex was the way they were towards you”.
just leave. You know you have to.
sending you much empathy, sympathy and strength
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