Last week, I went on a coffee date with a man that I met through a friend.
He was totally lovely, we had lots in common, chatted for hours and had a lots of laughs.
It was all very natural and relaxed.
The problem is that I just don't think I fancy him. He's just too short and I hated his clothes!! I know that sounds superficial, but I can't help it.
I can't decide if this is worth pursuing!? I would love to spend another afternoon chatting to him, I really enjoyed his company and he was really interesting. But if I agree to a second date, is that leading him on!?
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First Date Dilemma
Legomaster85 · 29/03/2024 13:37
Legomaster85 · 29/03/2024 13:53
Part of me just feels like I should just settle for somebody nice, who I get on with. But I'm not sure this ever works in real life.
Legomaster85 · 29/03/2024 13:53
Part of me just feels like I should just settle for somebody nice, who I get on with. But I'm not sure this ever works in real life.
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