I got with a new bf last year.
His ex wife is with someone on SO register I advised bf to ring SS he did that trigger a assessment just before this we split due to ex wife accusing my kids of bullying saying I wasn't safe around their kids. I am dbs checked as I work with children. I decided I couldn't cope with the bs and left him. We remained friends.
So his kids are now on a CiN and we have talked about trying again but with changes ie I would not see or go near his house or kids due to HCBM.
But would that bring SS into my life if I wasn't not around his kids at all. ??
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New bf has ss involved
Booloohoo · 28/03/2024 15:43
PuffinMcStuffin · 28/03/2024 15:57
Is this guy really worth this?
Booloohoo · 28/03/2024 16:17
Ex wife accused my kids of bullying none happened and then accused me of not been safe around kids due to me allowing my kids to go anywhere in the village I live it's tiny 30 house, everyone knows each other 15 houses are our family members.
He has 3 kids 2 live with him 1 with her. Ss have allowed her and her bf to have access and over nights but it's to be supervised for her bf .
Booloohoo · 28/03/2024 16:36
@PennyPickles60 yep. You got it .
Booloohoo · 28/03/2024 16:44
@PennyPickles60 she left all 3 when they split up with him.
1 was having issues so agreement was made between them for that child to live with her family with her . Other 2 didn't have over nights with mum at the time.
Since then she moved in with SO during the assessment the on a cin ss gave permission for overnights with supervision.
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FineWordsButterNoParsnips · 28/03/2024 17:51
Can you explain why you want to date such a shit show?
Why are people pestering for irrelevant details? The point is her standards are worryingly low.
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