Bit of background last year there was a work event where my partner ended up sharing a bed with a female co worker, both un clothed drunk with another couple in the room who shared the second bed, (male and female both also had partners who were not at the event). He didn’t tell me, I found out from messages on his phone. It was explained away as he lost his key it was an after party type thing the girl was sick and he was drunk nothing happened etc. This is very out of character as my partner never really drinks nor has done anything in the past to break trust. They work in different divisions of a law firm so don’t see each other often. I let it go. He said he’ll not speak to her again I snooped and found they still message very rarely but it’s always regarding work related things. Unsure if this is something to address?
the event has around 300 people there and each are given a room to share they all had there own room but were sharing with people they didn’t know which is why they all went back to the same room. Unsure if I’m over reacting or under reacting.